SEX AND ATTITUDE

I saw some amazing Hallowe'en costumes tonight.

The top 5 costumes for women were:
1. Marie Antoinette,
2. Nurse,
3. Wench,
4. Bikini clad bunny, and
5. harem or belly dancer girl.

As for the men the top 5 costumes were:
1. Marie Antoinette,
2. Glamor Puss,
3. Naked Guy with well oiled body wearing a brief,
4. the Scream, and
5. Superhero.

Are these all alter egos? If I were to classify I'd say that sex and fear were top of mind when people decked themselves out in their costume personas tonight. Then again maybe sex and fear are just at the top of my mind.

Most of the people wearing these costumes were youngish with hot bodies. Yet there were others who would never be referred to as hot by conventional measures. These people had wobbly bits, wrinkles and droopy buns or boobs which they proudly displayed. They didn't think these were issues to be worried about. Their attitudes declared, "Look at me. Feel my power. I know that you can't help but be attracted." Whether they were with someone special or on the prowl I'll wager they had sex when they got home. The best sex comes from abandoning thoughts of cellulite, paunchy stomachs or perfect positions and embracing this compelling attitude instead. It also helps to be detached from the outcome. Whether or not you orgasm or you give an orgasm is beside the point. It'll happen simply because you get caught up in the pure sensuality of it all. It's not about control, it's about abandonment. That's right, abandoning the inane and useless rules that bring shame to the bedroom. Like someone once said, confidence is a proven aphrodisiac.